(Quotes) : All About FRIENDSHIP

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Friendships are different from all other relationships. Unlike acquaintanceship, friendship is based on love. Unlike lovers and married couples, it is free of jealousy. Unlike children and parents, it knows neither criticism nor resentment. Friendship has no status in law. Business partnerships are based on a contract. So is marriage. Parents are bound by the law. But friendships are freely entered into, freely given, freely exercised.

     

Stephen Ambrose 

 

There’s a miracle of friendship that
dwells within the heart
And you don’t know how it happens
or where it gets its start
But the happiness it brings you
always gives a special lift
Any you realize that friendship
Is God’s most perfect gift.

Anonymous

“But Oh! The blessing it is to have a friend to whom one can speak fearless on any subject; with whom one’s deepest as well as one’s most foolish thoughts come out simply and safely. Oh, the comfort – the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person – having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all right out, just as they are, chaff and grain together; certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then with the breath of kindness blow the rest away.”

     

Dinah Maria Mulock Craik, A Life for a Life, 1866

 

We have been friends together,

In sunshine and in shade;

Since first beneath the chestnut-trees

In infancy we played.

But coldness dwells within thy heart,

A cloud is on thy brow;

We have been friends together—

Shall a light word part us now?…

We have been sad together,

We have wept, with bitter tears,

O’er the grass-grown graves, where slumber’d

The hopes of early years.

The voices which are silent there

Would bid thee clear thy brow;

We have been sad together—

Oh! what shall part us now?

Caroline Norton, (We Have Been Friends Together)

You have been my friend. That in itself is a tremendous thing. I wove my webs for you because I liked you. After all, what’s a life, anyway? We’re born, we live a little while, we die. A spider’s life can’t help being something of a mess, with all this trapping and eating flies. By helping you, perhaps I was trying to lift up my life a trifle. Heaven knows anyone’s life can stand a little of that.

     

E.B. (Elwyn Brooks) White, Charlotte, in “Charlotte’s Web”

 

 

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.

     

Henri Nouwen 

 

The friends I made have slipped and strayed.
And who’s the one that cares
A trifling lot and best forgot –
And that’s my tale, and theirs.
Then if my ‘friendships break and bend
There’s little need to cry
The while I know that every foe
Is faithful till I die.’

     

Dorothy Parker, The Leal

 

 “We call that person who has lost his father, an orphan; and a widower that man who has lost his wife. But that man who has known the immense unhappiness of losing a friend, by what name do we call him? Here every language is silent and holds its peace in impotence.”

     

Joseph Roux

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Huhuhuu…….. adakah yang mau menjadi Sahabatku ?

4 responses »

  1. siiip….. Boci sudah terdaftar.
    tak ada fasilitas UN_REG loh, hihi….

    ga perlu CV, hanya menyediakan waktu dan perhatian

    Selamat datang, Sahabat……. ^_^

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